Tips to Get your Partner into Using Sex Toy Together

Introducing adult toys into your sex life with your partner may be a rather difficult task, depending on the character of your partner and ability to experiment in bed. There are people, who will be delighted to spice up their love life, while the others could need a more careful approach, like "I’ve read a curios article this morning about couples using sex toys during sex, and I believe its fun." Here are some simple expert tips on adding sex toys into your bedroom.

Introducing the new vibrating friend

For many men, sex toys can pose a real threat, as they believe that dildos and similar toys are a kind of replacement, and they are concerned that their partner will like toy experience more than the real sex.

So, the first thing to remember is that adding a toy into sex should only bring fun and diversity to your sex life.

Experts suggest that the couples should use sex toys on each other, in order make the intercourse more joyful.

In addition, if you don’t know which toy to start from, you can opt for a clitoral stimulator, as sexologists admit that most women reach orgasm from clitoral stimulation, which is not always practiced during intercourse.

Overcoming the worries

You should present the new toy as yet another way to have fun in bed, so that your partner would not think he "is not doing enough."  If your boyfriend has such insecurity issues, and is constantly dealing with jealousy and fear of losing you, better think twice before introducing a sex toy, as it could make things much worse.

Additional Power

If your partner is ready to give a sex toy a try, but doesn’t want it to be a vibrator, use simple examples from everyday life to explain him that a vibe doesn’t mean that he is bad lover, but it is just a tool to drive you to orgasm faster.

For example, washing your car by hand and going to an automatic car wash would give the same results, but the second just makes car wash faster. So, a toy is not a replacement of your partner, it’s just a way to diversify sex from time to time.

Getting your partner in the mood for toy 

Every man knows that women love romantic things, like candles and massage. So, before presenting your love lady a sex toy, shower her with kisses and go for a foreplay to drive her in the mood.

But before starting, the most important thing is to speak about the usage of sex toy. If she already has a toy, ask her to use it together, but if she doesn’t , don’t push and convince her into trying them, as many women can start hating the third member of your relationship.

Overall, using a sex toy during sex should be used as a race to reaching orgasm, but simply a new experience, such as a new sex position, or new foreplay. Variety is the golden rule for healthy and joyful sex life, and sex toys is the most simple way to diversify it.