5 Steps for Perfect Sexy Massage

Do you want to make your boyfriend purr with pleasure and bring something new into your relationship? Everything is simple, you can go for an erotic massage. Usually, people are too passionate and they want to make sex right away, without exploring each other’s bodies. Sexual massage will help you to learn out more about your partner, to see which parts of his body are erogenous zones and where your partner likes to be touched. We will help you to bring and receive pleasure through massage.

Step 1: Choose the Space

The perfect place for the massage has to be hard, plain and steady. Your partner should be relaxed and calm, so put blanket under his body and pillows under his neck, knees and ankles.

Step 2: Use the oil

You can use any moisturizing lotion for making your hands silky and pleasant, but you can also use the massage oil which helps to make less rubbing while you massage, chafe and caress your partner’s body and muscles. There are oils with erotic aromas, but do not take too concentrated scents, like patchouli because it is annoying. It would be much better to take gentle aroma, like jasmine. And do not forget to warm the bottle.

Step 3: Pick a part of his body

Are you tired? If you are concentrated only on one part of his body, it can take more time than to make massage of whole body. If his back hurts, focus only on  it. If he prefers foot massage, do your best. But we recommend you to always ask your partner where he would like to be massaged.

Step 4: Use different techniques

If you want to bring the pleasure for your boyfriend, remember few simple moves:

Compression- this is a very easy movement for learning and it is the best movement for many body parts. You just have to put your hand on the body, push on with force the other hand on the top of the first one and go around in circle slowly.

Kneading- it is an ideal movement for heavy parts of the body as biceps, buttocks and thighs. You just have to pick up and press the part you are massaging, your palms have to lay on your partner’s body.

Stroking- it is a great movement for both large (back and thighs) and small (neck and tops of feet) parts. Hold your fingers together, thumbs have to be parallel to each other, put your palms on the body and make enduring, soft movements.

Friction- this is a simple movement which you can do without oil, it liberates deep muscles. Hold firmly the massaging part with one hand and push on with force and massage it with the other hand. But if you want to massage shoulder caps, soles of the feet and palms, you just have to massage them with your fingertips.

You can use these moves separately or all together, a lot depends on your partner’s likes and desires. But you can use this simple massage for the first time:

Massage his shoulder caps by using a friction movement. Take oil, chafe it into your hands and massage his back with stroking moves. Then, massage his buttocks and thighs applying kneading and rub his calves with stroking movements. At the end make him foot massage by using friction on the soles of his feet.

Step 5: Concentrate on the feeling

Sexy massage does not have to be perfect, so do not worry about rightness. The feature of your touch is much better than technique. You have to massage your partner with love and caress, you have to be emotionally with him and look at his reactions. This is the main secret of erotic massage, which will definitely lead to passionate night.